There are certain ‘guidelines’ and style tips that help any woman feel better in what she is wearing and looking her beautiful best.

I realise I may have mentioned some if not all the points previously however, I keep getting asked by many women out there... what can I do to play up my curves and downplay my size? Know your body and what looks most flattering. Every detail counts from head to toe.

Be proud of your curves and don’t be afraid to wear form-fitting clothes that show off your assets. Confidence is key.

Define your waist. A belted dress in a dark, matte colour highlights your curves. Baggier, unstructured clothing doesn’t help size hide. In fact, loose clothing makes one look bigger... A fact!

Play with proportion regardless of your size. For example, a cropped jacket/blazer (preferably shaped) over a longer top with leggings/jeggings/skinny jeans adds length to your silhouette and makes you look long and lean.

Heels are one of the best options when you want to add height and a feminine touch. Heels are definitely the way to go. This season, there are many heels to choose from even comfortable styles like the wedge.

Key pieces for any wardrobe:

• Bootleg jeans
• Simple skirt
• Full skirt
• Sheath dress
• Cap sleeve dress
• Drapey dress
• Shaped blazer
• Tie-neck sweater
• V-neck blouse
• Blousy top
• Three-quarter sleeve cardi/top
• Pretty shell

Have fun shopping!

Be well.

L.

This last week, Jean3 raised a good point or two in her comment dated August 23. Can bigger girls wear skinny jeans? Of course they can!

I believe it's really important to know your body and know what suits you, your body type and what you feel comfortable and confident in. This is crucial in pulling off any look or outfit.

I know of women who are a size 16-18 and wear skinny jeans and they look fabulous! Not all styles are going to "fit/suit" every body so it is key in understanding what works for you.

I personally am a fan of the skinny jean. It doesn't mean you buy a size too small or anything like that. Try clothes on, check yourself out in them and possibly get a second or third opinion. This never hurt anyone. In fact, I'd recommend you do the above until you get a sense of your own style and first hand experience of what looks good on you and you gain confidence in what looks good on your frame/body.

If you're not comfortable in skinny jeans, that's OK. There is nothing wrong with that. Not all styles are going to work for everyone and every body.

I'm simply letting you know what the trends are if you are interested in knowing what is fashionable on the streets of New York for the upcoming seasons. That's NOT to say that other styles aren't or that you shouldn't be seen in anything but.

For example, a boot-cut or flare style jean is always flattering to those who have heavier legs than upper body and aren't comfortable in leg defining skinny jeans. Again... know your body type and what works for you.

It may take some time to master however, take your time and be patient. Don't be afraid to try new styles, colours and approaches. This is how we learn to look good and feel great about ourselves... no matter what size we are.

Have a wonderful week.

Be well.

L.

 

 

 

It is wonderful to have you commenting and responding to my posts. Keep them coming and I'll do my best to get back to you promptly.

Now to answer some of your questions...

* My cultural background is Serbian/Croatian. My parents met and married in Australia and my sister and I were born in Cairns, QLD before moving to Sydney where I grew up. Yes, a name like mine doesn't sound very Australian!

* Loosing weight should be a gradual thing that takes time, patience, dedication and motivation. You have to start somewhere and sometime and today is as good a day as any to commence a healthy lifestyle change for the better. Remember, exercise is just as important as watching what you eat/drink.

* Wearing big, baggy black clothes doesn't do much for your self-esteem and self confidence. Wear clothes for your size and incorporate colours you like and that suit you in your wardrobe. Try to avoid thick, bulky fabrics as they don't do our curves any favours. There is no need to be shy or embarrassed with the clothes you wear...  you're trying to loose some extra weight so you can become healthier. Remind yourself and be proud!

* I'm a size 14/16 and 5'11' or 178cms tall.